zara Blake
/ June 19, 2025
Someone recently wrote me an email inquiring about the difference between anger, acceptance, and forgiveness. I believe it is so possible to find forgiveness, BOTH (key word) for yourself and for your ex. You are both human, and humans make mistakes. Right? You messed up, your
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zara Blake
/ June 18, 2025
Breakups can make life miserable. Unfortunately, many of us resort to ineffective or self-defeating attempts to hasten our healing, or try to reverse the process. We only end up making matters worse. Some self-destructive things we may resort to are: Denying the breakup, or ignoring
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zara Blake
/ June 18, 2025
Every couple goes through ups and downs. But sometimes, the “down” part starts to feel like a steep, never-ending slide into resentment, silence, and emotional chaos. What once felt warm, passionate, and safe begins to feel like walking through a battlefield. So how do you
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zara Blake
/ June 18, 2025
TOUGH love YEP! Tough love, that’s how we learn to love ourselves. Guess what, here are the facts (and you probably won’t like them, but this is my TOUGH love method of teaching you to love yourself)…you are STUCK with yourself for the rest of
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zara Blake
/ June 18, 2025
You just found out that your partner has a sexual addiction that has kept him/her living a secret life—one that often involves one-night stands, prostitutes, and “sex-buddies.” Maybe it’s online hookups, maybe it’s an emotional affair turned physical. Either way, you’re reeling from the shock,
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zara Blake
/ June 18, 2025
1. Start a personal journal about your journey from heartbreak to ‘better-than-ever’. I know one man who kept a record of his postings on our break up board, starting from his devastating beginning days, to his healed and in love again days, and then turned them
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zara Blake
/ June 18, 2025
We’ve all been there—crying into a pint of ice cream, obsessively checking our phones, wondering how it all fell apart. But guess what? You will get through this. Whether you’re fresh out of a heartbreak or just stuck in the aftermath, these seven steps will
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zara Blake
/ June 18, 2025
WHY AM I SUCH AN EMOTIONAL WRECK? Suffering the loss of a love is a true emotional crisis. Emotional abandonment can be as painful as grief over death, perhaps even more. This grief can burrow deep within us where it undermines our self esteem, wreaking
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zara Blake
/ June 18, 2025
What are the factors that lead to an affair? Believe it or not, it’s not about SEX, and it’s not about Physical Attraction to the other woman. For many men who have cheated their wives or mates were far MORE attractive than the other woman,
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zara Blake
/ June 18, 2025
The bad thing about getting dumped or abandoned is it costs us our self-esteem. We feel a full tidal wave of rejection bring us to our knees, sucking the wind out of our sails. We form an inner-hate and get caught in a self-destructive mode. We
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