zara Blake
/ June 21, 2025
I feel empty inside, sometimes. We all feel empty inside. What makes one feel empty inside? This happens when we feel like nobody can really, truly relate to us in an intimate, understanding way. We may be in a room with a hundred people, including
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zara Blake
/ June 19, 2025
Because men look at the ‘big picture’ that is life and women look at the ‘man/relationship’. Because men can enjoy all of the spices of life– while having a relationship is just an added bonus–not their be all! Even though they may care about woman,
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zara Blake
/ June 19, 2025
Nothing stings quite like being dumped—especially when your ex moves on to someone else. But instead of wallowing in heartbreak, why not turn the tables and come out stronger, more confident, and utterly unforgettable? The best revenge isn’t bitterness—it’s thriving so spectacularly that your ex is left
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zara Blake
/ June 19, 2025
Grief is a very personal thing. You can not explain it. Grief is an emotion, and like the essence of a rose, emotions are indescribable in words. Every grief is different. The way you grieve may be entirely different than the way I grieve, yet
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zara Blake
/ June 19, 2025
(For Women Only—Because Sometimes You Just Gotta Laugh About It) Let’s face it: relationships change over time. What once felt like steamy passion and breathless chemistry can slowly dissolve into a series of sarcastic exchanges, mismatched underwear, and side-eye glances that say more than words
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zara Blake
/ June 19, 2025
Someone recently wrote me an email inquiring about the difference between anger, acceptance, and forgiveness. I believe it is so possible to find forgiveness, BOTH (key word) for yourself and for your ex. You are both human, and humans make mistakes. Right? You messed up, your
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zara Blake
/ June 18, 2025
Breakups can make life miserable. Unfortunately, many of us resort to ineffective or self-defeating attempts to hasten our healing, or try to reverse the process. We only end up making matters worse. Some self-destructive things we may resort to are: Denying the breakup, or ignoring
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zara Blake
/ June 18, 2025
TOUGH love YEP! Tough love, that’s how we learn to love ourselves. Guess what, here are the facts (and you probably won’t like them, but this is my TOUGH love method of teaching you to love yourself)…you are STUCK with yourself for the rest of
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zara Blake
/ June 18, 2025
We’ve all been there—crying into a pint of ice cream, obsessively checking our phones, wondering how it all fell apart. But guess what? You will get through this. Whether you’re fresh out of a heartbreak or just stuck in the aftermath, these seven steps will
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zara Blake
/ June 18, 2025
WHY AM I SUCH AN EMOTIONAL WRECK? Suffering the loss of a love is a true emotional crisis. Emotional abandonment can be as painful as grief over death, perhaps even more. This grief can burrow deep within us where it undermines our self esteem, wreaking
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